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Sunday, February 01, 2009

Sun, 01 Feb 2009 16:38:36 GMT

So, the last chapter was, apparently, not all love.
Instead, perhaps it could be called burden.

Looking back, maybe it's not the best idea to title things before they happen. Too many expectations. So, this time, there's no title.

An update.
Still in school, finished in four months - finally.
BSBA International Business.
I plan to be nowhere near the US when I graduate.
I plan to find a great job and earn enough money to find a good house.
I plan to work too hard in the first few years so that I almost burn out. But only almost.

I plan to be happier and smile more.
The decisions I make will be strong, with conviction, and without regret.

And then I will look back on this entry and smile quietly, knowing that I have accomplished every single thing I hoped to at this one point in my life.

Even though I might not be able to do it with the person I hoped to, it doesn't mean I cannot do it.

I'll write more.

Friday, May 02, 2008

Fri, 02 May 2008 02:37:52 GMT

Always, Smile.

I call the last chapter of my life 活该, Serves Me Right.
I want the next to be called 爱, Love.

It has come time. The person I was is no longer the person I am now.

So, this is the last entry.

For the first time in my life, I wish I was where my grandfather is now.

To those I have hurt, I want to say, with all of my heart that I have left, not only Sorry, but to those, I give you the rest of my heart. It is no longer mine. Please take care of it because it's so fragile, but it's been good to me. Maybe in a while, can I ask for it back?

To those I have loved, thank you.

To those who have loved me, you have given me the best and only thing of value in this world and for that I will never have words to show my gratitude.

Thank you and, if there is just one thing that I can hope, if there is only one, I hope you can smile.

So, smile.

Friday, June 08, 2007

Fri, 08 Jun 2007 09:35:11 GMT

Let's Go For A Ride.

For now, a shift.

I really don't have much to say about this entire school year. It's not unlike other times when you wait and wait for something, and then it finally arrives. You've spent so much energy waiting that it's now just exhausting. I wish there were a few good things I could mention so that it doesn’t seem like it was a waste of so many, many months. Regardless of what I may say, there are some good, non-stupid, people here. I'll say that.

There is a bit of a change coming up that I initiated and want.

This summer I'm going to a place that somehow succeeds in turning my sense of being in all different directions, and spits me out trying to figure out which way is up. Hopefully, this time, it'll be for the better. I know, in some strange way, that this time I might find I do things in different ways.

I leave in about 30 min, the driver is usually early.

By the way, that photo above was taken a few months ago, outside of my bedroom window. I've been waiting until now to post it.

A few thousand miles and a little more than a day of travel (plus a 19hr self-imposed layover). I hope I'll update more, and with something at least more interesting than this post.

Can you guess where I'm going? (If you already know...shh...) ^^

See you there.

... more later

Sunday, May 20, 2007

Sun, 20 May 2007 06:45:00 GMT

Sigh (again).

The dark stage.

There's really very little reason for me to ever 回来丹佛。如果我的爸爸不喜欢。。。他必须了解我真的不喜欢这个地方。

I went to a concert on Thursday, but after the opening acts and then three songs by the band I actually went to see, they said the lead singer had a problem with his voice. I was trying to catch up to my parents in the number of concerts I've been to. Talking with my sister, I realized that my parents have been to more concerts this year than her and I have ever been to haha. Sucks so bad to rent a car, drive all the way there, wait through mediocre openers, and then hear 3 songs and leave. So I'm really gonna try to find concerts to go to this summer to make up for that.

I should be excited and all to be able to leave for so long, and I am, but it's kind of empty, and I'm not sure why. It's not as though I'm leaving many friends behind here (ha!), and it's not as though I like this place any great deal ... I think it's the waiting that's getting to me.

Oh and I went to 노래방 the other night and realized that the only songs I know are the sappy kinds you'd probably hear at the end of the type of movie that makes your chest feel like children just cried on your heart.

我迫不及待想离开。

... more later

Saturday, April 28, 2007

Sat, 28 Apr 2007 08:45:33 GMT

A Little More.

I suck so much at math that if math were a tootsie pop, I would get to the center in like, a second. It'd just be me, sitting in an empty classroom after everyone else has finished their exam, chewing on tootsie. What do you call that stuff if it's not in the shape of a roll? Can you say "tootsie"? It sounds like what someone is the 1930s would call a girl. Or a nickname Aussies or Brits would give to a train.

I'm so ready to leave this place. I have to remind myself each weekday morning that I need to go to class because if I don't, my summer and next year plans could be mixed up. So, basically, my motivation for school these days isn't a job, isn't money, isn't the great sense of security that comes from working in a cubicle surrounded by salarymen equally mired in their various states of boredom – it's the summer and next year. But what better motivation?

The other morning I got out of the shower and as I toweled off, I realized I didn't wash the shampoo out of my hair. I think (or hope) this has happened to at least some others. I don't know what I was thinking about, but I must have been thinking about the same thing this morning, because it happened again.

Just a little over a month left and I'm getting really antsy. I've got 1 of a few plane tickets ready, and 1 visa of 2.

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Thursday, April 05, 2007

Thu, 05 Apr 2007 04:05:06 GMT

Wait.

I can't wait for days to blur together in that way that only summers after a school year can. Those days that consist of nothing and everything that you always and never needed or wanted. Those days when you wake up, inexplicably, at 8 in the morning and wonder why you couldn’t do that while in school. Those days when you sit next to friends and ask "so, what should we do?" and not hear an answer for a good few minutes, after which time the answer is usually something no more profound than "I dunno." Lazy days and hazy nights. Running down streets, with lights passing overhead in a line like a long exposure photo. I can't wait because I've seen and heard what happens when those days are no longer as freely available.

So often I've heard people older than me say something along the lines of "I look in the mirror and am surprised by the grey haired person staring back at me." I suppose that's not a terrible thing, since it kind of implies that they feel younger than their age. But the majority of those people out of school do not get those summers back. Those summers are replaced by 1 week vacations, after which they're greeted with a stack of papers, piled to the ceiling, and a boss wondering where the TPS reports went. I wonder, have they done what they wanted to do? Are they doing what they want to do?

We take chances and test limits - usually for no other reason except that we can. When we are young, we can take those chances without the world falling in on us.

We take that for granted, until we're the ones standing in front of that mirror after one lazy lunch, trying to remember where we put our cane and wondering if it's too early to go to bed. Who knows.

What are your summer plans?

... more later

Saturday, March 03, 2007

Sat, 03 Mar 2007 09:05:49 GMT

Sigh.

This layout is pretty different from the other. It's plain - uncomplicated. I might keep it for about 3 months.

I could complain a lot and all that, but the truth is, I'm fortunate in many ways and shouldn't complain.

My writing has gotten very fluffy lately. Clouds would look at them and say to each other "wow. fluffy." I find myself writing about things that are pretty intangible and without concrete solutions. A bit frustrating, but still interesting. I'll try for something less-fluffy.

Change is afoot. Afoot? About. In the works.

After thinking for quite some time, I've found that this school is in fact teaching me something. It is teaching me to care less. Not to be careless. Just to care less. Is that good? I guess it's good and bad. The problem is that I will always care as much as I want, about what I want. This place is a path previously well-traveled. Oh well.

What use is it to travel a path already paved? It's easier? Sure. But if our lives are a set of jungles, with different experiences and monkeys around each corner, why take the guided tour?

Grab a canteen, put on some clean underwear, and discover your own monkeys. Make friends with them, have a chat over bananas and leaves, pee everywhere, and keep moving. …Why not?

I realized that my profile pic is pretty old. I haven't changed it though. This is a recent photo.

I want to grow my hair longer, and maybe straighten it. Good idea?

... more later

Friday, January 12, 2007

Fri, 12 Jan 2007 07:30:02 GMT

One Day.

One day I'll be able to say to myself "you know, this should work. this might be okay."

It gets tiring, really. Not having a house or place that I really consider home. But one day...

I never put up pictures, posters, or photographs. I rarely decorate, and buy plain, clean-lined furniture. I don’t cook my favourite foods, and usually use one room, no matter how many rooms there are.

I'm trying though. After my laptop hard drive crapped on itself, and I lost thousands of photos, I realized something I should have a long time ago: a good photo, a good story, a good idea, a good friend, and a pure smile, should be shared - not hidden away in a little corner for that time that may or may not come.

This evening I put five of my favourite photos on my walls (the ones that survived the crapping).

You see, I think I might now believe that we should never smile just to smile.

Smiles are currency, and we all have zillions in the bank. No, we own the bank.
I should learn to spend these wisely, generously, and with all my heart.

Because. After all. If not now, then when?

... more later

Monday, December 25, 2006

Mon, 25 Dec 2006 05:28:03 GMT

Merry Christmas.

It's not so easy to fly out of an airport that's been essentially not working for the 48 hours prior to your flight, but apparently it's possible. The snow in that area was so much that the airport had to cancel all flights for what was I think around 1.5-2 days. I was trying to save money, so I had arranged for a shuttle service to take me to the airport, but it turned out they had to cancel all of their transportation too, so I had to call a driver.

When I arrived, people were sleeping on cots and blankets, and standing in lines that wrapped all around the airport.

I feel bad for those people, except the ones who couldn't stop complaining. It's not as though the complaints would make the situation change much. Anyway, I stood in line for about 5 minutes, checked my bag and was finished.

I haven't travelled to this place for a while for Christmas, but it's an interesting change.

Anyway, did anyone get interesting things? Or, if you don't celebrate the holiday...do you have things that you wish you might have received had you celebrated? :P

Last year was a very fun holiday, and I hope the next one will be similar or better ;)

Have a happy and safe holiday ^^

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Monday, November 20, 2006

Mon, 20 Nov 2006 02:45:26 GMT

Yeah.

A lot of the journals I read aren't updating lately. Finals maybe? Just busy with life?

For me, finals time is now, and yet the amount of studying I've done in preparation amounts to me picking up a heavy book and saying to myself "hey, this book is heavy."

My time is spent, most days, on Flickr, looking around with wide eyes, hopeful that there will be a time when I have enough time. Someone once asked me "how can someone spend so much time on Flickr? I mean, they're just photos." Sigh.

I had tickets to a concert this past week but couldn't go because I had too much homework. Sucks. The AAR will be in the area in December. I might get tickets to that...anyone wanna go? haha.

I might write more after finals and try to revive this journal.

... more later